70% of women say - Let me have a chance to talk and relax first.

Only 22 per cent of the women we polled said they’d like your first move to be a spontaneous peck at the bar, at the restaurant, or even on your front steps. And “if you kiss me as soon as we walk in through the door, you’ll make me feel sleazy,” says one woman. Let the mood marinate for at least 15 minutes. “Treat her like a guest—offer her a drink and turn on some music or entertainment,” says Tiger. “You want the date vibes to transition naturally into hooking up.” While setting the mood, forgo the Sex Pistols for something mellow but passionate, such as Coldplay or U2. Researchers at Florida State University found that music can significantly decrease symptoms of stress; 54 per cent of women confirmed they’re charmed by the vanilla crooning of Mr Gwyneth Paltrow.